The Most Important Conversation a Physician Will Ever Have — and Almost No One Teaches It

PROGRAM

Breaking Bad News is a comprehensive physician communication training program built on 25 years of practice, 15 years of research, and the training of over 4,000 physicians. Built around the PROGRAM acronym — the first framework specifically designed to replace what SPIKES got wrong. 

THE PROBLEM

Compassionate Physicians Deliver Bad News Badly. Not Because They Don't Care — Because They Were Never Taught

Most physicians who struggle to deliver bad news are not cold, detached, or indifferent. They are caring, well-meaning, and deeply compassionate. And yet, in the moment a patient or family most needs them — the delivery falls apart. The words come out wrong. The room goes cold. Families leave angry or confused. And sometimes, the physician makes things worse without ever understanding why. 

This isn’t a character problem. It’s a training gap. 

The vast majority of physicians still learn how to deliver difficult news the same way they always have: by watching senior colleagues who were never taught either. Some learned the SPIKES acronym in medical school — a framework developed in 1999 that, while groundbreaking at the time, contains a fundamental flaw that research has since identified: it tells physicians to announce bad news rather than show it. And that distinction changes everything. 

When a physician walks into a room and says, “I have bad news,” the patient’s nervous system reacts before a single word of context is heard. Adrenaline surges. The ability to process information collapses. The physician then spends the next several minutes presenting information that never lands — because they lost the patient in the first sentence. 

Breaking Bad News exists to change this. 

THE SOLUTION

PROGRAM: A Framework Built on What Patients Actually Need. 

 After 15 years of research, hundreds of patient interviews, and 25 years of clinical practice as a neonatologist, Dr. Anthony Orsini developed the PROGRAM acronym — a structured, learnable framework for delivering difficult news in the most compassionate and effective manner possible. 

PROGRAM isn’t a script. Like all Orsini Way training, it’s a framework — one that works across diagnoses, specialties, and patient types. It gives physicians the structure to show bad news rather than announce it, to remain fully present in the room rather than searching for the next phrase, and to leave patients and families feeling cared for even in their worst moments. 

The framework is now taught in medical schools and residency programs across the country. It has been delivered to over 4,000 physicians through one-on-one role-playing sessions with professional actors, and it is available both in person and remotely. 

HOW IT WORKS

The PROGRAM Framework: Seven Steps to Delivering Difficult News with Compassion and Clarity 

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Plan & Position

Before opening the door, stop. Take stock of what you're about to say and how you're going to say it. Every difficult conversation should have a beginning, a middle, and an end — and the physician, like a director about to film a scene, should know how it unfolds before walking in.

Position matters. Assess the room when you enter. Who is there? Are there enough chairs? Is the layout arranged so that everyone can see you and you can be close enough to connect? Move chairs. Sit — never stand — when delivering difficult news. Taking the time to position the room correctly communicates presence, intentionality, and respect before a word is spoken.

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Review

Begin by inviting the patient to speak. Ask: "What is your understanding of what's been happening?" Let them tell you what they know. This does several things simultaneously: it gives you a read on where they are emotionally and cognitively, it gets you on the same page, and it lets you begin walking them through the evidence at a pace they can follow.

The most powerful technique in the PROGRAM framework: take the patient through your thought process, step by step, the way you arrived at the diagnosis. Not just what you found — but why you looked, what each result showed, and why it mattered. Refer to the diagnosis as reluctant — something you arrived at not because you wanted to, but because the evidence made it unavoidable.

"Mr. Smith, when you arrived, you had been coughing up blood. That's sometimes not concerning — but in your case, I was concerned enough to send you to the pulmonologist. The pulmonologist did a biopsy. The sample went to the lab. I reviewed the results with the pathologists. And I'm sorry to tell you that the biopsy results were consistent with cancer."

This is evidence-first delivery. By the time you say the word "cancer," the patient has been walked through every step of the process. They didn't get blindsided — they watched the diagnosis unfold.

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Observe

Your body language is communicating before and after every word you say. Patients and families are watching your posture, your proximity, your eye contact, and your stillness — and they are comparing all of it to your words. When the two are inconsistent, it creates distrust.

Sitting back casually while expressing sympathy verbally sends the message that the physician isn't as affected by this as they're claiming to be — and families notice. Every nonverbal signal must reinforce what you're saying. Sit forward, stay present, make eye contact. The O in PROGRAM is a constant — observe their reactions throughout, and let what you see guide your pace.

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Gradual

Never blindside a patient. Never open a conversation with the conclusion. The goal of the review and the gradual approach is to move the patient toward the news so that when it arrives, it is neither shocking nor delivered without context.

This is the core departure from SPIKES — and the most important principle in the PROGRAM framework: show the bad news; don't say it. Announcing "I have bad news" creates an adrenaline surge in the patient before a single piece of information has been communicated. From that moment forward, they stop processing. Everything you say after that sentence disappears.

Instead, build. Use the review. Present the evidence. Move toward the conclusion the way an attorney builds a closing argument — and let the verdict land when the jury already understands why. A well-constructed review means the patient can almost anticipate the news before it's spoken. That is not cruelty; it is compassion. It is the difference between a patient who can process what happens next and one who cannot.

After delivering the diagnosis, say you're sorry — then be quiet. Sit with them in silence. That silence is not empty; it communicates that you are not rushing, that you are not uncomfortable, and that you will stay as long as they need you. 

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Relationship

You are not simply delivering information. You are redefining who this person is. They arrived as a couple; they are leaving as a widow and a husband with a terminal diagnosis. They arrived as parents; they are leaving having lost a child. That transformation happens in your presence, and they will carry the memory of that moment — and of you — for the rest of their lives.

Speak in the first person. "I am your physician. I am going to help you through this." Not "the team will" or "we will follow up" — but I. The use of first-person singular creates a relationship with the individual standing before them, not with an institution. They need to feel that a person is with them, not a system.

One mother who Dr. Orsini interviewed described it this way: the physician becomes part of every Thanksgiving dinner, because every time the family thinks about their loved one, they think about the person who told them. That is the weight of the moment — and the importance of the relationship you build inside it.

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Accountability

Be the anchor in the room. Patients and families in crisis need to feel that someone capable and compassionate is holding the situation — that there is a person who knows what to do and who is committed to seeing them through it.

Tell them you'll sit with them as long as they need. If you're referring them to a specialist, say explicitly: "I'm still your doctor. You can call me at any time. I'll be checking in with Dr. Smith to see how you're doing." That statement — given without prompting — closes a loop the patient didn't even know was open. They assumed they might be handed off and forgotten. Accountability means telling them before they have to ask.

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Meet Again

After difficult news is delivered, most physicians say goodbye and leave. The family may not know what happens next. What tests? What appointments? Who do they call? When?

Ambiguity in the worst moments of a person's life is not neutral — it creates anxiety, distrust, and the sense that they've been abandoned.

Be specific about next steps. Offer a card. Better yet: "Would it be okay if I checked on you in a few days?" If you're referring them to a specialist, don't just give a name — give context. "Dr. Smith is a friend of mine. He works at the same hospital. If it's okay with you, I'll give him a call and see if I can get you in." Tell them when you'll follow up — and if something prevents you from doing it, send someone else in to let them know you haven't forgotten.

Meeting again is not a formality. It is the proof that everything you said about being there for them was true.

More Than a Framework — A Trainable Skill 

breaking bad news program

Research and clinical experience show the same thing: knowing what to do and being able to do it under pressure are two very different things. That’s why Breaking Bad News training is not a lecture — it’s an exercise. 

The Orsini Way has trained over 4,000 physicians using one-on-one role-playing sessions with professional actors trained in improvisation. In a safe, structured environment, physicians rehearse delivering difficult news — receiving real-time feedback on their language, body position, pacing, and emotional presence — until the framework becomes instinct, not a checklist. 

Training is available both in-person and remotely.
Programs can be custom-designed for: 

Medical school programs (pre-clinical and clinical year) 

Residency and fellowship programs 

Hospital departments and clinical teams 

Health systems seeking enterprise-wide training 

Individual physicians seeking personal coaching 

SPIKES Served Its Purpose. The Patient of Today Deserves More. 

SPIKES has been taught in medical schools since 1999 and continues to be the dominant framework in most residency programs today. Its publication was meaningful and its intentions were right. But medicine has evolved — and more importantly, patient expectations have evolved. 

Through hundreds of patient interviews and years of research, The Orsini Way identified a fundamental problem in the SPIKES approach: it teaches physicians to announce bad news by saying “I have bad news.” That single phrase — delivered before context, before review, before the patient has been prepared — triggers an adrenaline response that shuts down processing. Everything communicated after that sentence is, neurologically speaking, unlikely to be heard. 

PROGRAM addresses this directly. Rather than announcing bad news, PROGRAM teaches physicians to show it — through a structured, evidence-first review that leads the patient toward the diagnosis at a pace they can follow. By the time the news is delivered, they’ve already seen it coming. The epinephrine surge is managed, not triggered. 

The framework has been adopted by medical schools and residency programs across the country — not as a replacement for rigor, but as evidence that what gets taught in training shapes what patients experience decades later. 

What Changes After PROGRAM Training

Physicians who complete Breaking Bad News training through The Orsini Way report a fundamental shift in how they approach difficult conversations — from something they dread and rush through to something they feel capable of doing with genuine compassion. That shift has measurable downstream effects: The goal of It’s All In The Delivery isn’t a good workshop. It’s a permanent shift in the way your team communicates — with patients, families, and each other

For physicians: 
Reduced anxiety around difficult conversations. Greater confidence in navigating emotional or unexpected patient reactions. A sense of purpose and efficacy in moments that previously felt overwhelming. 
For patients and families: 
Research consistently links how bad news is delivered to downstream patient outcomes including treatment adherence, trust in the care team, emotional recovery, and malpractice risk. How a physician shows up in the hardest moment is how the patient remembers them — and the entire institution — forever. 
For institutions: 
Patient satisfaction scores, Press Ganey communication metrics, and malpractice claim rates are all influenced by how physicians communicate in high-stakes conversations. Organizations that invest in this training protect both their patients and their practitioners. 

You’re going to be part of their Thanksgiving dinner — because when they think about their loved one, they’re going to be thinking about you.

 

— A patient’s mother, speaking about the physician who told her family their diagnosis.
Shared by Dr. Anthony Orsini.

Common Questions

SPIKES, published in 1999, was a landmark contribution to physician communication training. PROGRAM is its evolution, built on 15 years of research and hundreds of patient interviews. The most significant difference is in how bad news is delivered: SPIKES teaches physicians to prepare patients by announcing “I have bad news,” while PROGRAM teaches them to show the bad news through a structured review — because the announcement itself triggers an adrenaline response that prevents patients from processing what follows. PROGRAM also places a greater emphasis on relationship, accountability, and clear next steps in ways that reflect how patients today actually experience difficult conversations. 

Any physician or clinician who will ever have to deliver difficult news — which is, in practice, all of them. PROGRAM training is particularly valuable for medical students, residents, and fellows (who are forming habits early), oncologists, hospitalists, emergency medicine physicians, neonatologists, and any specialty where difficult conversations are routine. But the framework applies universally: a primary care physician telling a patient about a diabetes diagnosis needs the same skills as an oncologist delivering a terminal prognosis. 

The training is structured as a focused engagement, not an ongoing subscription. The core of the program is the role-playing sessions with professional actors, which can be conducted in person or remotely. Program length is customized to the size of the group and the level of practice needed — from single-session intensive workshops to multi-day residency program integrations. 

Because reading about a framework and executing it in a room with a grieving family are two entirely different things. The actor-based role-playing model gives physicians a rehearsal space: a place to feel the difficulty of the moment, make mistakes, receive real feedback, and practice until the framework becomes reflex. The same way surgeons don’t practice on patients, physicians shouldn’t practice delivering bad news on the families who need them most. The actors are trained in improvisation — they respond authentically, create the emotional texture of the real conversation, and give the physician something to actually respond to, not just anticipate. 

Yes. The Orsini Way has developed a robust virtual delivery model that preserves the core experience — including the role-playing sessions. Virtual delivery is available for institutions with geographically distributed staff, large cohort training, or programs that need flexibility in scheduling. 

Contact The Orsini Way to schedule a discovery conversation. We’ll assess the size of your group, the structure of your training environment (medical school, residency, department-wide, or enterprise), and the specific challenges you’re trying to address — then propose a program that fits. 

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Every Physician Will Have to Break Bad News. Let's Make Sure They're Ready. 

The worst moments in a patient’s life are often the most important test of a physician’s skill. Not clinical skill — human skill. The ability to stay present, speak clearly, and hold space for someone whose world has just changed. 

That skill is teachable. And The Orsini Way has spent 25 years proving it. 

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